Friday, April 17, 2020

A Whole New World...

This pandemic has changed us.

No matter what your stance on this thing may be, there's no denying that. Some are locking themselves in a bunker, hoarding bleach and toilet paper, some are staying home, venturing out only for necessities under cover of face masks and rubber gloves, some are stepping outside carefully for some sense of normalcy, while some are ignoring all precaution in defiance of all of those recommendations and thumbing their noses at all who choose the careful route. Whichever approach you choose, it's very clear that you are not alone.

We're one world. No matter how many borders or labels people wish to apply, none of it matters. Nature doesn't see walls or skin color. Religion and language does not apply here. HUMANITY is facing this. People are dying. People are separated. People are finding themselves taking inventory of their lives and evaluating and measuring importance of people and things that have previously occupied their time and energy.

I would like to believe that I already had a handle on those things. Previous challenges have tested that in my life so I feel like I may have had a head start in this but there certainly are no winners. My hope is that, on the other side of this (and there will be an end), we will ALL see the world through new lenses. We truly are all the same in this...simply human. May we step forward with healthy bodies, open hearts, and open minds and greet our brothers and sisters with warmth and respect.

OK, I get that I'm probably annoyingly pollyanna. That's fine. I'll wear that badge happily. The reality is that this situation has already forced us to do things differently. We're already adapting and shifting. Our creativity is shining. Our hearts are connecting. Ingenuity is blossoming and walls are coming down in spite of our hard-headed tendencies.

When schools across the country were forced to close their doors, dedicated educators found a way to keep engaging students. Lesson plans were quickly adapted to online learning. Video chats allow kids to directly address the teachers they know. Technology! A few weeks ago, I was complaining about the time my kids spent wrapped up in phones and apps and saying that technology was taking over their brains. Now, I'm embracing it.

Me! Embracing technology! Not only are my kids “going to school” through their computers, they're connecting in other ways, too. My 11 year old blackbelt is continuing her classes and workouts because the Master figured out how to hold classes via Zoom. My teenager can chat with her friends and stay connected. My husband has video chatted with a group of high school friends. Even I used video chat for a job interview and stuck my toe in the water with a video call with my own group of friends. Look at me! Leaping forward in to the 21st century! Next, I think I'll try to get my far away family to try this thing out.

One solid truth in life is that change is inevitable. The way we deal with that is up to us. As with all things, there are good and bad elements. I choose to welcome the positive and shine my light on that so it can grow. I hope that others will do the same. In this darkness, we've already found light and seen beautiful things blossoming. 

Keep shining. It's a whole new world. Let's fill it with love and kindness.